I have one .005 diamond that is also engraving deep, not as bad as yours is though. I have to remember to check out where it came from.
I did have that problem with a batch of carbide burnishers a long time ago. They did not get the 90* facets on 90*. They were a few degrees off and rather than the surface lying flat on the material, there was a faint angle to the contact. It is amazing how that tiny angle made it a cutter instead of a burnisher. You may need a 75X magnifier to see it, but want to make a bet?
I hate the 'We never had a complaint', or the equivalent of 'You are crazy and we are right', type answers. And that is just what you got.
Call them up and read them the riot act. Tell them you have been doing this probably longer than of their sharpeners, and probably their QC people. Then push with why one bit out of the hundreds does this and they claim the bit is good. Also kick them where it hurts and tell them the bit you just bought from Antares works perfectly and you do not like erroneous lip service. Talk to the head of quality control. Or better yet email them and send carbons to lots of departments there.
They need to know that they lost a customer due to bad product and bad service.

Philadelphia, PA (Really Bensalem)
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